Month: January 2007

I ask God

I asked God to take away my pain.
God said, No.
It is not for me to take away, but for you to give it up.
I asked God to make my body perfect.
God said, No.
The spirit was whole, the body was only temporary.
I asked God to grant me patience.
God said, No.
Patience is a by-product of tribulations, it isn’t granted, it is earned.
I asked God to give me happiness.
God said, No.
I give you blessings, Happiness is up to you.
I asked God to spare me pain.
God said, No.
Suffering draws you apart from worldly cares and brings you closer to me.
I asked God to make my spirit grow.
God said, No.
You must grow on your own, but I will prune you to make you fruitful.
I asked for all things that I might enjoy life.
God said, No.
I will give you life so that you may enjoy all things.
I ask God to help me LOVE others, as much as he loves me.
God said… Ahhhh, finally you have the idea!
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Rhyme of Hum

A long journey we started
An empty mind blown inside
Leaving a trace, no one see
Embrace the greatness
Is out of reach

Though smiles lingering
Beating hardened

The darkness fade
I stood still
My heart stopped, my mind blocked
Thousand tears
Response to the memory..

Take me out
From the empty land I created
For I know
God love you more than I do

But friend..
The love we once shared
The laugh we always put
The friendship that promise no ending
Will be kept
Forth in my mind…

~tata~

Boyz II Men

Finally they are here..
And they didnt save even one last ticket for me….
This one is the coolest song i always love ..I can love you like that…
They rated cinderellaYou hoped it would come true
That one day your prince charming
Would come rescue you
You like romantic movies
And you never will forget
The way you felt when romeo kissed juilet
And all this time that youve been waitingYou dont have to wait no more…
I can love you like that
I would make you my world
With heaven and earth
If you were my girlI would give you my heart
Be all that you need show you youre everything thats precious to me
If you give me a chance
I can love you like that
I never make a promise
I dont intend to keep
So when I say forever, forever is what I mean
Well Im no casanova but I swear this much is true
Ill be holding nothing back when it comes to you
You dream of love that is ever lasting

Eczema

One thing i have to understand is that “No Cure for eczema”.

Preventing is the only way.
“Naturally, if your eczema is a result of a specific allergy or sensitivity, then it is wise to avoid the thing which causes it if you can. “

If you have eczema, you’re probably not the only person you know who has it. Eczema isn’t contagious like a cold, but most people with eczema have family members with the condition. Researchers think it’s inherited or passed through the genes. In general, eczema is fairly common — approximately 1 in 10 people in the world will be affected by it at some point in their lives.

People with eczema also may have asthma and certain allergies, such as hay fever. For some, food allergies (such as allergies to cow’s milk, soy, eggs, fish, or wheat) may bring on or worsen eczema. Allergies to animal dander, rough fabrics, and dust may also trigger the condition in some people.

Dealing With Eczema
There’s good news if you have eczema — it usually clears up before the age of 25. Until then, you can learn to tune in to what triggers eczema and manage the condition. For example, if you have eczema and can’t wear certain types of makeup, find brands that are free of fragrances and dyes. Your dermatologist may be able to recommend some brands that are less likely to irritate your skin.
Your self-esteem doesn’t have to suffer just because you have eczema, and neither does your social life! Getting involved in your school and extracurricular activities can be a great way to get your mind off the itch. If certain activities aggravate your eczema, such as swimming in a heavily chlorinated pool, suggest activities to your friends that won’t harm your skin.
Even if sweat tends to aggravate your skin, it’s still a good idea to exercise. Exercise is a great way to blow off stress — just try walking, bike riding, or another sport that keeps your skin cool and dry while you work out.

Can you imagine living with more DONT’S than DO?
Welcome to my life…

Hmm..

I get the best feeling in the world when you say hi or even smile at me because I know, even if its just for a second, that I’ve crossed your mind.

Wisdom :)

Regular naps prevent old age especially if you take them while driving

Having one child makes you a parent;
having two you are a referee.

Marriage is a relationship in which one person is always right and the other is husband!

I believe we should all pay our tax with a smile. I tried – but they wanted cash. Don’t feel bad. A lot of people have no talent.

Don’t marry the person you want to live with, marry the one you cannotlive without,,, but whatever you do, you’ll regret it later.

You can’t buy love . . . but you pay heavily for it.

True friends stab you in the front.

Forgiveness is giving up my right to hate you for hurting me.

Bad officials are elected by good citizens who do not vote.

Laziness is nothing more than the habit of resting before you get tired.

Marriage is give and take. You’d better give it to her or she’ll take it anyway.

My wife and I always compromise. I admit I’m wrong and she agrees with me.

Those who can’t laugh at themselves leave the job to others.

Ladies first; Pretty ladies sooner.

Early to bed, early to rise, your girl goes out with other guys.

Real friends are the ones who survive transitions between address books.

Saving is the best thing. Especially when your parents have done it for you.

Wise men talk because they have something to say; fools talk because they have to say something.

They call our language the mother tongue because the father seldom gets to speak.

Life isnt as easy as it seem to be..

When Things Are Beyond your control , here’s something that you must NOT DO so as to avoid misery in your life:

You must not decide how you think the world SHOULD be.
You must not make rules for how everyone SHOULD behave.
Then, when the world doesn’t obey your rules, you get angry!
That’s what miserable people do!
On the other hand, let’s say you expect that:Friends SHOULD return favours.
People SHOULD appreciate you.
Planes SHOULD arrive on time.
Everyone SHOULD be honest.
Your husband or best friend SHOULD remember your birthday.

These expectations may sound reasonable. But often, thesethings won’t happen!
So you end up frustrated and disappointed.

There’s a better strategy.

Demand less, and instead, have preferences!

For things that are beyond your control, tell yourself:”I WOULD PREFER “A”, BUT IF “B” HAPPENS, IT’S OK TOO!”

This is really a change in mindset. It is a shift in attitude, and itgives you more peace of mind …

You prefer that people are polite … but when they are rude, it doesn’truin your day.
You prefer sunshine … but if it rains, it is ok too!

To become happier, we either need to

a) Change the world, or
b) Change our thinking.

It is easier to change our Thinking!